Monday, December 11, 2006

A long lost pal........

This blog goes out to my pal... A really close one (Hope the ones really close to me Know whom i m mentioning here)

I don’t want to say tat he is a “long lost pal”. But sadly tat is the truth. But I m slowly trying to get back to him... The same old feeling of closeness and is missing.. Even though I want it to be like the good 'old days.. But I m sure that it will be back sooner or later.. I think a small misunderstanding will not cost a friendship tat we have carried so well rite from our school days.. Even though we weren’t so close in our school days.. Were kinda good pals even down there.. Hey Pal... I miss u... and those days which we were together...

Starting off abt this pal f mine.. We have been studying in the same institution from the 5th standard!! Real good time that we had together in the past ten years.. Even though I have not been this expressive during our school days!! Itz the college that made us real tight friends.. We have been real good friends from the first day at college.. I was really happy tat I knew at least one person in this new college.. Coz evry1 finds some time to get new friends and adjust to them.. So someone has to be there for u in this transition stage when u move from a school leaving behind a real good gang of friends to an entirely new place termed as "College”!! He was the only friend for me in these times.. When I found it difficult to find new frens even though i used to get new frens pretty fast!! We used to walk together a lot.. And sooner we found good frens... But he was still the ONLY Friend I cud always turn to during those days even though I started befriending a lots of new people.. We became real tight frens during this period.. The lunches tat we used to share.. The last bench Card games during the electrical hour in the first year.. The various times we used to jump outta the class behind the sir’s back.. The proxy system tat we did so well and examples galore!! This was one real good phase of friendship tat I enjoyed.. The times tat we really got to know each other really well.. And I wud the say the combined studies is what brought us even more closer.. Whenever we had to talk something.. We used to do it on the pretext of combined studiz.. And there were a few sessions when we didn’t even touch the books tat we were supposed to study even if we had the univz the next day!!

There have been many a time when we used to share our sorrows... Weeping on each other's shoulders.. Comforting each other tat everything will be alright... And laughing our hearts out the very next moment.. Listening to the fav songs on pc.. Watching movies during the nites we used to meet for combined studies.. And there were a few days when we used to chat thru the nite to the extent tat the chat session only used to end when either of us slept off in between! Tat was real fun days!!

Life had been cruel to me the last few months ... A few untoward incidents.. A few silly things that I did made him misunderstand me and making him distant from me.. I moved into a new set f frens.. And we became virtually Hi/Bye pals to the extent tat even our parents started to doubt whether we had a fight!!

Hmm..... Signing off the blog with a heavy heart... And with positive thoughts tat life will be back to normal soooon.. !! Hey pal.. I miss u.. And I do Realllly miss the good old days of our friendship!!

9 comments:

Kurien Thomas said...

hai man
i really understand what you are talking about.The same feeling that you have,that is small misunderstanding will not come in between tight friendships is the only belief on which i am having hope.
Do not mind pal everything is happening for good.Take courage

Kurien Thomas said...

hai man
i really understand what you are talking about.The same feeling that you have,that is small misunderstanding will not come in between tight friendships is the only belief on which i am having hope.
Do not mind pal everything is happening for good.Take courage because some body cares......

Anonymous said...

I totally disagree with what Kurien has to say.

Of all people, I should know exactly what it feels like to lose someone so close to your heart that never in your wildest dreams did you ever imagine that you would lose them someday.

The pain, the feelings of insecurity and pathetic sense of self-pity and loss comes crashing all at once. But then, when trouble comes, it comes chappad faad ke!

Those who love you, for them misunderstandings will never be promoted to facts. They'll come back to you.

How many strands of friendship a misunderstanding strains is decided by the amount of mutual love and trust between the two friends.

But I agree with one of what Kurien said, "everything happens for good".

So don't worry pal, if he was meant to be your friend, so he will remain!

Abinav said...

Dont worry dude.. Friendship never dies.

megha said...

hey...
the closer u get to a person, the smaller will be the misunderstandings tht cn tear u apart..this happens to every other person on this planet..nd the sad thing is, once this happens our friends would never be the same again evn if we patch up the frnship :(...
but thn life goes on..guess there r bigger things to worry about..
PS: im not a pessimist :D

Ananthalekshmy V said...

so,me commenting atlast!!!

well....it really hurts when ti comes to losing a god friendship for little causes...but ,the way u did it to retrieve,is truly appreciable...

Hari said...

To all those who comented !! Thanks a lot for ur comments.. the blog was more of a Confession rather than justifying myself ... jus wanted to make that clear !!

Venkatesh A.R. said...

did the intented friend of urs read thru this? what's his reaction?

- Venki.

Anonymous said...

for(i=0;i<=manytimes;i++)
{
if(misunderstanding)
cout<<"lost friend: but they never stop thinking about yoo or ur friendship";
if(truefriends)
cout<<"they are never "long lost"";
}
cout<<"perhaps the friends u lost also think the same,perhaps it was meant to be";